How to Stop Making Excuses for Your Weight
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If you’re sick and tired of being overweight but continue to excuse yourself with the same old reasons, it’s time to realize that excuses keep you stuck where you are and cause you to believe that you lack control. And while old habits die hard, if you’ve been making excuse after excuse about why you can’t shed the weight, it’s time to recognize that you can do something about it and take action to regain control over your life.
Steps
- Determine if your weight problem is due to a medical condition. Sometimes the reason why you’ve either gained weight or can’t seem to lose the weight is due to an underlying medical problem. However, simply assuming this to be the case and not having your doctor confirm it is an excuse. And even if you do have a medical condition, your doctor’s advice may be able to help you manage around it instead of giving in to it. So, before you delve into other reasons surrounding your weight battle, see your doctor to check that you’re not struggling with an issue that could be remedied by medical intervention. Medical issues that can make it difficult to lose weight include:
- Underactive thyroid: An underactive thyroid means that your body may not produce enough thyroid hormone to effectively burn stored fat.
- Hormonal changes: Different stages in life may produce a shift in hormones, which can lead to weight gain. Examples include menopause, pregnancy and puberty. However, some of these changes are temporary and most require a new approach rather than assuming things can stay as they always have done.
- Chronic stress: If you’re in a constant state of stress and anxiety, your body may produce a chemical called cortisol. This stress hormone causes your body to store excess fat, just in case you need it for hiking over the mountains to safer territory. The only thing is, we’re not living like cavemen running from danger anymore and daily stress that doesn’t get relieved can wind up as unhelpful weight gain.
- Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS): More than 5 million women in the U.S. suffer from PCOS, which is a result of a hormonal imbalance.[1] Symptoms include irregular menstrual bleeding, acne, weight gain and difficulty getting pregnant.
- Cushing’s syndrome: People who have Cushing’s syndrome have adrenal glands that produce too much cortisol, which causes your body to store excess fat.
- Other condition: Your doctor may identify other relevant medical condition that are contributing to your weight gain.
- Identify the culprits. Excuses get made as a way of sweeping the real causes under the carpet. Unexamined, the weight-gain culprits get off free of charge while your body continues ballooning. That’s willful blindness and it’s harmful to you. Some of the sneaky, yet obvious-when-you-think-about-them, culprits that bring about weight gain include:
- Watching a lot of TV, sitting down snacking and not moving.
- “Just a tiny, little chocky bar/cookie/bag of chips” each time you’re feeling peckish.
- Large portion sizes of food at each meal. If you don’t know what’s too large in terms of a portion, that’s already telling you a lot.
- No or low exercise, driving everywhere, never taking a moment to walk somewhere instead.
- Drinking a lot of alcohol––hidden and useless calories are the trademark of booze.
- Eating take-out food more than once a week.
- A diet high in processed foods, low in natural, whole and unprocessed food.
- Accept that habit, rather than lack of time, is holding you back. Many of us complain that there is never enough time to do anything, losing weight included. This is a self-fulfilling prophecy, for the more we preach it, the more it becomes our reality and we form habits that keep us stuck in this race of busyness. From harried mothers to busy executives, many folks find that they’re dashing from place to place from the minute they wake up in the morning to the second their head hits the pillow at night and then blame this rush for all other ills in their lives. However, you control what you do with your time––it is not time controlling you. Resolve to stop using your lifestyle as a reason for your weight gain and instead find ways to integrate weight loss into your jam-packed schedule.
- Make a decision to re-prioritize your lifestyle to help you start losing the weight. If you’re tired of hearing yourself say that you’re “too busy” to lose weight, you’ll need to meet your schedule head on to overcome this objection.
- Take a close look at every aspect of your schedule. Is there 30 minutes or one hour that you can substitute for exercise? As unattractive as this may sound, consider swapping lunch out with the girls every day for 45 minutes in the gym instead. Make time on Sunday night to prepare healthy pre-packed (and possibly frozen) meals for the rest of the week. That way you can still grab and go but instead of processed unhealthy foods, you can pick up something healthy and low calorie.
- Instead of complaining that you’re too busy, own your time. If there really is nothing you can do about your schedule, stop complaining and reverting to it as a weight loss crutch because you’re only hurting yourself.
- Stop excusing yourself with lots of “just this once” lines and make weight loss your priority. If you truly want to lose weight, you must make it a priority––not only when it’s convenient or easy. The goal of weight loss must become as important and daily as brushing your teeth in the morning or being on time for meetings. “Just this once” soon adds up to “just too many times” you’ve excused yourself for bad dietary habits, until the healthy eating becomes the exception rather than the rule. Throw out “just this once” from your vocabulary; notice yourself saying it and say “stop” to yourself and reconsider your eating choice.
- Acknowledge any tendency in yourself to adopt the “I can’t do it” attitude. If you continue to tell yourself you “just can’t lose weight”, you will start to believe it. Once you believe it, you will start to live up to it. You can do it. Giving up is an option for dead people only. Accompanying the “I can’t do it” is a raft of very sneaky, tricky and ultimately self-tripping excuses. Here are some common ones:
- “I can’t lose weight. I’m just too tired.”: Your tiredness is sourced in those cookies, chocolates, fast foods and processed meals. Your tiredness is sourced in being sedentary all the time, from the office to the couch. Your tiredness is sugar-filled. And your tiredness as a result of these things is a bit of a vicious circle––too tired to plan healthier food, too tired to plan a diet program, too tired to get up and exercise, and on and on it goes. Wake up to the reality that bad food and little movement create the fatigue.
- “I can’t lose weight. It’s too boring to go without food.”: Do your eyes glaze over every time you see the word diet or read a fitness schedule? Does “nutrition” mean “something dull people care about” to you? Are you stuck with visions of eating “rabbit food” for the rest of your life? If you see weight loss as a dent in an otherwise fun and exciting life, you’ve fallen into an excuse that losing weight will make life boring. This is an unfortunate excuse that blinds you to seeing the good things about weight loss (more energy equals more fun) and the fun and innovative things you can do with diets and fitness.
- “I can’t lose weight. I don’t do deprivation; it’s just not pretty. Anyway, who cares, I’d rather die young and happy than old and deprived.” This excuse is fallacious; nobody wants to die in agony from disease and nutritional deficiencies. It’s a short-sighted attitude that sounds hip now but will definitely land all around your hips later. Lifestyle dieting is not about deprivation; it’s about managing food and exercise to ensure you lead a happier and more energetic lifestyle overall.
- “I can’t lose weight. I tried before and look, it all came back again.” Sadly, most diets do this because fad diets and a diet frame of mind are destructive rather than helpful. What is important is to eat healthily for the long-term and to find a diet program in discussion with your health professional that is attuned to your lifestyle, not a temporary fix that you can only see an end for in a few months. Yo-yo dieting teaches little and actually ingrains bad habits by assuming that when the set diet time is up, the junk food can move on back in. It doesn’t work like that––changing your eating habits is for life and moderation in all things becomes your new mantra, not “a little diet now, a lot of stuffing later”.
- Fix the excuses. There are lots of ways to approach excuses and much of this is about breaking ingrained bad habits and attitudes toward food. This will take time, so the first important way to stop making excuses is to allow yourself the time needed to keep reframing your excuses into positive statements in place of the hopeless statements that excuses actually are. Most people need to ease into changes rather than waking up tomorrow and saying “Okay, as of now, no more chocolate bars.” Life doesn’t work like that and it’s best to gradually remove junk food from the diet and make a conscious decision to add in more and more healthy food to take its place. Here are some suggestions to wean yourself off the weighty excuses:
- Start slowly. Instead of thinking that in order to lose weight you have to run five miles a day and eat nothing but celery, start slowly and be realistic. Walk a mile every night, at your pace. And try substituting one unhealthy meal or snack for something healthy. Your body will embrace the change and slowly you’ll get stronger.
- Find fun ways to lose weight. Losing weight doesn’t have to be a snoozefest. Fortunately, fitness and nutrition programs have come a long way from the days of faddish deprivation and simplistic exercise routines. In fact, many gyms offer classes ranging from kick boxing (to get some aggression out) to Zumba, where you can “dance off the pounds” to fun music, often with fun classmates. Also, the emergence of numerous health conscious chefs have produced a bevy of enticing cookbooks crammed with delicious, mouthwatering recipes that beg to be cooked and baked in the home kitchen. It is now an exciting art form to see how many ways you can create healthy cuisine from the wide array of delicious fruits, vegetables and animal products we have access to in this global world. And if you are following a diet that feels depriving, double check its credentials. Most likely it’s a fad diet and not one your doctor would endorse!
- Focus on a lifestyle change rather than a one-off diet. One-off doesn’t remedy the excuses; it simply puts the excuses in a holding pattern, waiting to engulf you when the diet ends. By changing your whole approach to eating and exercising though, you kill off the lifeblood of your excuses and say goodbye to yo-yo dieting. Begin by removing and then banning the presence of junk food stashes in the home. Institute walking rules for take outs––you can only indulge in them if you (and your family) walk to and from the take away outlet. And turn many occasions into hidden exercise, like walking with a friend to chat instead of sitting down; riding a bike to the store through a beautiful park instead of taking the car; taking the dog for his regular daily walk, etc. Your lifestyle should be about embracing what makes you feel good––seeing other people, getting into the outdoor air, observing natural beauty, listening to conversations instead of scoffing down food, etc. Small and yet very important changes to how you intend to live from this time forward.
- Plan ahead. A little planning goes a long way. First, indulge in some healthy cookbooks––here is an excuse to buy some glossy reads that will guide your cooking creations. Then, set out and plan meals ahead for the week, including snacks. It may sound like effort but 20 minutes spent Sunday night will do the following: Get you a menu, from which you get a grocery list, from which you cut down on unnecessary purchases and save money and time, from which you no longer have “what am I going to eat tonight” panic, which means you get to do more fun things and spend less time stuck in both the kitchen and the grocery store, let alone fast food joints! Try it before dismissing it as all too hard, and involve an app on your phone or iPad to help you plan, as it’s a lot more fun and lets you explore recipes for the food that’s in season (which is usually healthier and cheaper).
- Make it easier on yourself. If you find that you’re constantly hitting fast food restaurant drive through outlets because you’re running between a meeting and your child’s soccer game, consider packing healthy food such as raw veggies, turkey wrap sandwiches and waters. Aside from throwing the food into the cooler, you won’t have to spend additional time and can still hit your destination feeling satisfied and not hungry.
- Account for your progress. Part of losing weight successfully is paying attention to your behavior. In a world where people eat in front of the computer or TV, it’s easy to overeat and not be cognizant of how much, or what, is being consumed. If you actively track what is going into your mouth, you can have more control over your journey. You don’t need to track your food intake forever––just for a few weeks or months until you get a clear idea of what you’re eating. After a while, it’ll become second nature to think consciously before picking up the food you’re going to graze on.
- Have a goal. If you have more than 10 pounds to lose, create small incremental goals to reach every few weeks. Create a spreadsheet or a chart that marks what you weigh today and what you weight on each weigh in day, along with goals. It’s even easier if you use an app that does most of the work for you––search for a good one for your smartphone or iPad.
- Track your food and exercise intake. Seeing what you’ve eaten or the activity you’ve completed online or on paper will motivate you to stay on track. You can either track your daily progress in a paper journal or you can turn to one of the many weight loss sites that will automatically calculate calories for you.
- Set a benchmark. You need to know how fit you are now. Perhaps that will be enough to kick start your exercise program. However, it is important to know it now so that you can continue to measure it into the future. Do a timed walk or run over a set distance. Repeat this in the future, to evaluate your improvement. Only do as much as you’re comfortable with; you will improve by increasing your regular exercise.
- Get some company. Join a weight loss group. Numerous weight loss groups like Weight Watchers provide not only weight loss tips, but also support and accountability. A weight loss group may also be a wonderful place to meet other people struggling with similar challenges.
- Stomp on the exercise excuses. There are plenty of reasons to say “I can’t be bothered exercising today.” But they’re all a sign of giving in and of not prioritizing your health. Unless you’re tucked up in bed with a cold or illness, you can exercise today. Realize that it’s often your thoughts that make exercise hard––resist the temptation to slouch and within five minutes, you’ll be glad you got moving.
- Remember this: Exercise does much more than help you to lose weight. It improves your mood, lifts your energy levels, gives you a sense of purpose and resolve, helps you to sleep better, improves your chances of living a longer life, strengthens your heart and lungs, increases your bone density, and improves your mental agility.
- Change the types of exercise. If you don’t know what exercise you like the most yet, try a range and change them regularly until it becomes clear what works for you. Realize that people mean well when they recommend their exercise or sport ideas but that one size does not fit all and that you need to find exercise that enthuses you and helps your body to stay fit. And do try walking and swimming (or water workouts even if you can’t swim)––most people can do these successfully and enjoy them.
- Ten minutes of exercise a day is better than nothing. You can manage 10 minutes.
- Turn food and exercise into the solution, not the problem. Through planning, freezing healthy food meals ahead of time, finding outlets to relieve your stress, regular exercise, small treat portions and a food diary, you can grow to love the food and exercise that keeps you in top condition, without feeling deprived, lethargic or helpless. At this point, excuses will no longer define you; you will be defining yourself consciously and repeatedly.
Tips
- Even though it may sound counter-intuitive, consider that you may be trying to sabotage your efforts to lose weight by making excuses. In many cases, people who cannot seem to lose weight are harboring deep seated issues that must be addressed before weight loss and commence. You might need to talk to a therapist about emotional challenges first; don’t delay because this is probably stopping you from enjoying many areas of your life.
- If one of your excuses for not exercising is because of joint or body pain, visit a physician and have this issue addressed.
- Enlist the assistance of friends and family members. Tell them to hold you accountable and to pick you up when you may be slipping. Have them call around to exercise or walk with you regularly.
- Be creative. If TV is your weakness, get a treadmill and place it in front of the TV. Then, use it. It’s better than slouching and not moving!
Warnings
- Avoid turning to over the counter medications for weight loss unless prescribed by a physician. Some weight loss medications may present serious health risks for some, so have any medications evaluated by a physician first.
Things You’ll Need
- Food diary or spreadsheets
- Healthy recipe cookbooks
- Internet access
- Healthy foods
- Exercise gear
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Sources and Citations
- http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=56872 – research source
- ? http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/polycystic-ovary-syndrome.cfm
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